Collaborative Divorce in Sarasota, Florida

What Is a Collaborative Divorce?

A collaborative divorce is when both clients retain separate lawyers whose only job is to help the clients settle their disputes.  The process involves open communication between the clients and their respective lawyers.  All participants agree to work together in a collaborative manner.  They also agree to be respectful and honest and to participate in good faith to try to reach an agreement, which meets both clients’ interests.  If the case does not settle in the collaborative process, the lawyers must withdraw and cannot participate in court proceedings.  This agreement that the lawyers will not go to court requires the lawyers and the clients to look at the resolution process in a different way.

Florida Statutes Support Collaborative Divorce

Florida has adopted a law called the Collaborative Law Act.  The purpose/mission statement of Florida’s collaborative divorce statutes is:  ” . . . to encourage the peaceful resolution of disputes and the early resolution of pending litigation through a voluntary settlement process. The collaborative law process is a unique nonadversarial process that preserves a working relationship between the parties and reduces the emotional and financial toll of litigation.”  Section 61.55, Florida Statues.

The Attorney’s Role

In traditional divorce litigation your attorney  “rides two horses”  The first horse is moving in the direction of settling the case.  The second horse is moving towards getting your case ready for trial.  These two directions quickly become incompatible.  Pushing hard towards trial can make settlement less likely, and focusing on settlement takes time and resources away from preparing for trial.   In a collaborative divorce the collaborative attorneys can never be the trial (litigation) attorneys, so the problem of “riding two horses” is eliminated.  Instead, your collaborative attorney’s sole focus is to help you negotiate a fair resolution.

Some clients are reluctant to try collaborative law because they have a misconception about the attorney’s role.  Specifically, some clients are concerned that their collaborative attorney will not be a strong advocate for them.  To be clear:  your collaborative attorney  is your advocate.  The collaborative process is not  everyone holding hands and singing Kumbaya.  There are real and serious problems that need to be addressed in every divorce case.  Your collaborative attorney will be your advocate in articulating and addressing those problems.  However, rather focusing on litigation, your collaborative attorney will to work creatively and cooperatively with the collaborative team to help you reach a result that is fair and works for everyone.

 

Collaborative Divorce vs. Litigation

 CollaborativeLitigation
Who Controls the ProcessYou and your spouse control the process and make the final decisionsJudge controls the process and makes the final decisions
Degree of AdversityYou and your spouse pledge mutual respect and opennessCourt process is based on an adversarial system
TimetableCosts are manageable, usually less expensive than litigation; Team model is financial efficient in use of expertsJudge sets the timetable; crowded court schedule often results in delays
Use of ExpertsJointly retained specialists provide information and guidance helping you and your spouse develop informed, mutually beneficial solutionsSeparate experts are hired to support the litigants' positions, often at great expense to each
Involvement of LawyersYour lawyers work towards a mutually created settlementLawyers fight to "win." But who wins when a the couples assets are used to engage in expensive litigation
PrivacyThe process, discussion and negotiation details are kept privateDispute becomes a matter of public record.
Facilitation of CommunciationCollaborative team, including a mental health professional, will assist you and your spouse communicate during the process and provide skills for communicating after the divorce.No process designed to facilitate communications
Voluntary vs. MandatoryThe collaborative process is voluntaryAbsent agreement, the litigation process is mandatory
Lines of CommunicationYou and your spouse communicate directly with the assistance of members of your teamYou and your spouse negotiate through your lawyers
Court involvementThe collaborative process is conducted outside of courtLitigation is a court based model

 

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I am a member of Next Generation Divorce (NGD) which is a group of family law attorneys and other professionals in the Sarasota, Manatee, and Tampa areas that are committed to the collaborative law process.   NGD has a great website that will provide you with additional information about collaborative divorce.